having anal sex. You need to make your partner understand that you like the idea of having anal sex, that you would like to put it into practice and that you wouldn’t do anything that may hurt her. Achieving the right approach is very important because it might just make the difference between a “Why not?” answer and the “You sick bastard!” answer. Think about which of these two answers you’d like to hear from your lady and act accordingly.

One of the best ways of educating yourselves on anal sex is to buy one or two books and read them together with your partner. Of course, you need to bring up the issue before buying books, because it would look a bit strange if you suddenly whipped one out. Maybe mention it during a conversation on fantasies and ways to improve your sex life. Make her a trade: anal sex for whatever fantasy she wants to try. New territory is always exciting, especially in sex, and you might have a big surprise learning that she’s not all that opposed to anal sex. Still, it’s all in how you bring it up.

Whether you have some previous experience with anal sex or not, one thing is clear: when the words “anal sex” are spoken you and her will think of very different things. Chances are you’ll think “Nice and tight!!!”, while she will focus on “Dirty AND Painful!”. This difference in looking at the issue will extend down to every detail. You are probably going to worry about condoms and lubrication and she will wonder whether anal sex will cause hemorrhoids or anal fissures. What you should do is to try and understand all her worries and to find the proper solutions to her problems.

So educate yourself about anal sex and use a relaxed, yet eager attitude. If she says no, accept the answer and try again later. If she says yes, don’t start hollering and jumping around the room. Be cool and try to identify her fears and worries; just because she said yes, it doesn’t mean that she is 100 percent cool about it. She’s probably thinking “Well, it can’t be that bad” and you need to work hard to get her to the proper “Hey, this sounds fun!” attitude.

And another very important thing is to refrain from appearing too anxious to do it. You need to help her build confidence and that’s not going to happen if you’re being pushy about the subject. She will only think that you are insensitive or, worse, untrustworthy. Since anal sex gives full control to the man, the lady depends on you and has to be very confident that you would not do anything to hurt her. A pushy man that wants to rush things is not likely to make a woman trust him because he looks like he might do anything and not even apologize later.

Posted: August 11th, 2008 under lovecentria.
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What happens? Women usually will fake it under these circumstances. This isn’t Monday night football, don’t do this sort of thing to her. Be calm and relaxed buddy, you are getting laid. Your first huddle has already been jumped. Studies show that 70% of women are faking orgasms. That means, chances are, your woman is too. Why put her through that? I mean, get a grip. It isn’t that damn important. IF she is faking then obviously you are doing something wrong. You could just be making her feel uncomfortable due to the fact she knows that you are waiting for her to scream in ecstasy. I will tell you how you can spot a faked orgasm.

First you have to understand how your woman achieves an orgasm. Most women will achieve an orgasm with clitoral stimulation, while others need to have their G spot worked. Usually women who need their G spot fancied, won’t be able to have an orgasm if you stimulate their clitoris. This can be true with women who need to have their clitoris stimulated to have an orgasm.

I had one girlfriend that couldn’t have an orgasm unless her clitoris was stimulated. We could have sex for an hour and if I didn’t stimulated her clitoris, she wouldn’t get off. To know if your woman is faking, you need to know what makes her cum. It is that simple. If you are doing something that goes against your experiences and she cums, then chances are she is faking it. If you are trying something new and she has an orgasm, there is a good chance she is faking it. Keep that in mind while you observe her.

There are plenty of ways to tell if your woman is faking it.

Mechanical moaning. If she is moaning like what you would hear on a porn movie, chances are she is faking it.

Her noises don’t match what is going on. If you are performing oral sex and you take a break for a second and she is still moaning, chances are she is faking it. It is like someone who keeps on dancing after you turn the radio off.

You don’t feel her PC muscle gripping your penis. If she is about to orgasm or having an orgasm, this will go nuts. You will be able to feel it.

Her breathing. If she is breathing heavy while she has an orgasm, she will continue it for a little while. If she can turn it off like a switch, she is probably faking it.

These things doesn’t mean that she is faking it for certain. She might just actually be like this. If she does all of these things though, I would assume she is faking. Give her an Emmy award after you have sex and see how she reacts. Why is she faking it? Well, once you understand why, you might be surprised. Well, maybe not too surprised if you have a brain instead of like a bunch of cheese in your head like some guys.

Here is some reasons why she might fake it.

She may not have ever had an orgasm before. Now, this might sound a little weird but it does happen in women. I have known several women who have never had an orgasm. I always try to convience them that I can give them one, but I never seem to score with these kind of chicks.

She gets sore really fast. This could be because of her body type or because she doesn’t produce enough lube. Some women have very thin vaginal walls.

She thinks that it is so important to you. She is willing to fake it JUST FOR YOU! This is why you don’t want to put too much pressure on the topic. To me if you do, you are forcing her to lie to you.

How can you stop her from faking?
You can be open and keep a direct line of coversation flowing. This means you talk about what makes her have an orgasm. You try to understand what you can do so she doesn’t have to fake it. If you are kind and gentle with her, she will open up and tell you what you need to do.

Posted: August 8th, 2008 under lovecentria.
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Foreplay is a critical and crucial part of the whole lovemaking experience. It is simply define as everything that comes before actual intercourse. A couple needs foreplay to spice up their sex life, get fully aroused and heighten pleasure.

Men are from Mars.

Sometimes men need prolonged foreplay to get an erection. Foreplay for men is relatively simple and easy. The direct touching of the genitals usually does the trick. But for those women, who want to tantalize their men into submission remember these five foreplay-for-him maneuvers.

1. Visuals play a vital role, so a sexy clothe would be a nice touch but giving him an unadulterated view of your body will be the hottest gift. Reinforce this view with some steamy moves guaranteed to thrill, like giving him a strip tease.

2. Let your parted lips roam his body, like his stomach or chest, then slowly exhale. The rush of hot air will change the temperature in his skin and heighten his arousal.

3. Seize control and show your animal instinct. You’ll be surprise to know that men crave seduction as much as a woman and being aggressive is a sign of lust and that you’re as into it as he is.

4. Excite them with touch. Guys are especially touchy when they are between the sheets. Giving him butt massages and long but gentle scratches up and down their back will turn your fella right on.

5. Do what ever it is you are doing to bring him to the brink. Then ease up, not necessarily stopping, but put off the good thing for a while. Do this a few times until he screams “enough already.”

Women are from Venus.

Women need foreplay to become properly lubricated. For women foreplay is a bit more complicated. Direct genital touching is the last place you should go, consider every where else on her body as a good place to touch, massage and kiss before you go there. Letting her know that she is wanted for more than sex, that she is cared about as a woman, is what really turns her on. Here is a five step plan to help her get ready.

1. Nothing is more important to a woman than knowing that you have a connection. It can be as simple as telling her that you were thinking about her, and missed her, nothing over-the-top, just honest and caring conversation.

2. Remember that being intimate does not have to mean being sexual. Once in a while ask her probing questions and give her more than one-word replies when she asks you the same. Confide in her, and let her know that you appreciate her listening.

3. Establish physical contact without being sexual, like holding her hand, giving her massages, do anything to simply make contact without mauling her.

4. Kissing, for women, is an incredible turn on. You have to remember that women sees kissing as another form of emotional intimacy so do not go to a lot of tongue action right away. It will be good to start with a brief caressing of lips and pay attention to whether or not she’s digging it. If she is, continue from there with a bit more passion but always be aware of whether she is reciprocating. A great trick is to imitate her kissing style, as it’s surely a sign of what she likes!

5. Remember that from kissing her until the “heavy petting” stage, there should be some interval in between. The duration of the kiss will depend on how hot and bothered you both get. The longer and slower you kiss her, the more experienced you’ll seem, and the she’ll be excited.

There is no time limit on foreplay, usually the longer it takes the more sensitized your skin becomes and sends your senses to haywire that leads to explosive orgasm. The key is to start intercourse when both partners are fully aroused and having a hard time controlling their desires. Remember that initiating sex, breaking routine, exploration, new places, new positions, letting him/her know that he/she is wanted sexually is what turns your partner on.

Posted: August 7th, 2008 under lovecentria.
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Erectile dysfunction is one of the threats men can suffer anytime. Having an erectile dysfunction is having the incapability to achieve erection or just having the ability to attain only brief erections. Being the most common sexual problem of all men, only a few ask for medical help.

It can occur to men at any age but more common as they grow older. It’s time to see a doctor if you experience a lack of erection frequently. Lack of erection in males age 45 and over can be the sign of an underlying heart condition, but you can see a doctor and ask for advice at any age if you have any concerns in your general health.

Most of the men who experience occasional lack of erection of who cannot hold an erection for long enough time to have a satisfactory sexual intercourse are not ill however. They are plain tired and stressed and possibly bored with their sex life.

Today it’s the perfect day to start learning more about you and take control of your sex life. There is so much information floating around you and there are so many web sites that will offer advice on erectile dysfunction exercises, that there is no reason you have to put up with the embarrassment of yet again not being able to satisfy your partner and yourself. Erectile dysfunction exercises do work. Men have employed homemade erectile dysfunction cures for ages and they do help men of all ages feel better about themselves and have a great sex life.

And no, I’m not going to give you any crap about secret ancient oriental techniques preserved in Hindu temples or any such stories. Those techniques and methods are not secret at all. It’s very probable that men all around the world have tried home cures for their problems. It’s just that our Western society thinks that everything will be cured by the pill.

Pills can only offer you a few hours of 99% certain erection. It just stops there. It couldn’t help you to feel more, be more in control of your body or understand your partner any better. It has so many harmful side effects and not advisable for others to take it especially those under other medication. many nasty side effects, that it gets scary to read the instructions and caution notice.

Pill is certainly not the best product on erectile dysfunction. Try to engage with exercises first if you want to improve your sex life. You will learn to take control of your body and actions. After this, you’ll definitely be a better lover. Don’t waste your time now, I know you would love to surprise your partner and spice up your sexy time. Exercising your penis might take a lot of effort on you but the results are truly incredible – amazing sex life!

To learn secret exercises that can help improve male impotence issues, visit www.penishealth.com

Posted: August 5th, 2008 under size genetics.
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Routine, boredom and a million other things that get in the way tend to make sex repetitive and unexciting after a while. It’s not that the two lovers plan things this way, but rather the fact that life tends to dampen enthusiasm in the long run. Using the same positions every time and building up an unshakable routine doesn’t help either. I’m not sure why some people think that doing the same thing again and again is a good idea, but they are wrong. Everybody needs a little variation in his or her life, including in the bedroom department.

And variation can easily and delightfully be achieved by learning new sex positions. Far from being nothing but frills, positions are actually a great way of making the other feel your love. Changing positions during sex allows the two lovers to play with each other and to find new ways of getting and giving pleasure. If you feel that sex is getting stale, but love is still strong, then you simply have to learn some new positions and bring a little variety in the bedroom. And if you don’t know where to turn to find the best information on new positions, the answer is quite simple: Lovecentria™.

Lovecentria™ has one of the most comprehensive databases of sex hints, tips and information on the Internet and, naturally, a whole section dedicated to sex positions. From the most mundane to the most exotic ones, we have them all accompanied by both text and incredible 3D animations that you can use to make sure you learn them right and make no embarrassing mistakes. It’s true that getting it right the first time is pretty hard, but trying and failing is not that bad if both partners get to see the fun side. Learning new positions can really strengthen the bond between two people.

Browsing the list of new positions together and choosing the ones you are going to use in a couple of minutes can be a very sexy experience for both partners. Just think of all the pleasure lying ahead of you and focus on the fact that you are about to enjoy a great night and never worry that things might turn out wrong. You’re just beginning to learn new positions so there’s no reason to feel bad over a fumble, especially if the end result is mind blowing. Also, a really good idea is to try a decent number of positions in order to understand how they work.

The Lovecentria™ team has put together even more video and written guides that can add immensely to your knowledge and turn you into the ultimate lover. The entire website is packed with information that can help you understand what women think about men and how they see sex and what they like both in bed and in life. New sex positions may well turn out to be just the beginning of your acquaintance with the Lovecentria™ website and you may find yourself returning time and again to read on other topics of interest.

If you are interested in having a more exciting and exotic sex life then Lovecentria™ has it all for you, with 75 incredible 3D sex animations that you can control. Learn all these positions to become a bona fide sex god. To find out more, click here http://www.lovecentria.com/

Posted: August 4th, 2008 under lovecentria.
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It is not surprising to know that most men would like a big penis. After all, some men regard penis size as a basis of their masculinity. Some men believe that a bigger penis means he is more of a man.

It is common that so many men believe that a big penis will help them satisfy their partners in the sack. Thus, some men have become insecure about the size of their penis. However, technology has made it possible for men to achieve the penis size that they are longing for. Of recent, there are several companies that are focusing on the manufacture or production of penis enlargement methods in the market.

In a study conducted in 2005, 45% of the male subjects have admitted that they would like to have some increase as regard the measurement of their male reproductive organs. It must be noted that several men think that their penis size is too small. But in reality, their penis size is actually normal. These men may have thought that they do not have a big penis as compared to other men since their views of their own organs are from the top.

Also, fat accumulation at the pubic bone of a man can actually make it seem that the penis does not reach the normal size. Furthermore, a man’s perception or insecurity about the size of his penis has made several men realize that a combination of Penis Enlargement pills and Penis Enlargement Exercises is a good and safe way to increase the length and girth of their penises.

Posted: August 1st, 2008 under size genetics.
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Satisfying their partner is important for men. That’s the reason why they want a bigger penis – to secure themselves that their partners will be satisfied with them sexually but it’s not just all about having a bigger penis.

Nowadays, there are many options for natural penis enlargement. There are exercises that can help you add more length and girth to your penis. There are also traction devices available in the market or you use a combination of them both. For a long time, natural penis enlargement exercises have been tried by men giving them the results they want.

These exercises are really effective for you because it can give you enhanced ejaculation control that will guarantee your partner to be happy.

There are other things that can help you to be a better lover. Women want the best sex with their men. So you have to focus while having the experience at hand. The more focus you are, the more intense your sex with her will be.

While having your intimate moment, don’t think of other things - worries regarding your job, a broken down car or the next mortgage payment. Mom and dad’s pictures in the bedroom don’t help either.

Posted: July 21st, 2008 under size genetics.
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Why Tantric Massage is good ? Well Tantric sex is to stimulate the endocrine glands to produce more hGH, serotonin, DHEA and testosterone. These hormones help improve sexual health, promote the flow of blood through the body, take out the trash (toxins, that is) and strengthen the nervous and immune systems in order to increase the overall health. A person who’s into Tantric sex feels healthy and rejuvenated without the use of substances or devices. Sex is quite enough to bring about these changes in a person. However, one must know how to engage in sex and what to do in bed in order to achieve this healthy state.

Here is one Video about Tantric Massage , Enjoy !

Posted: May 26th, 2008 under lovecentria.
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Interested in Tantric sex ? Tantric Sex is another great way of blowing the minds (not literally) of women; especially those who don’t think much of you at the start. Women always melt before passion and tenderness and Tantric sex is all about increasing the feeling instead of just pushing harder or faster. It’s about learning to open your heart a bit and experience a fantastic sense of unity with your lover. And that’s exactly what’s going to make her beg for more every time because good Tantric sex and a thorough knowledge of Kama Sutra are remarkably scarce in men.

Interested in experimenting with Kama Sutra and tantric sex? Lovecentria has all the content and advice that you need. Articles, videos and instructional eBooks are all available.Discover More Information about Lovemaking Here

Posted: May 25th, 2008 under lovecentria.
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First I will say this, I know there are a lot of women out there who don’t like giving or receiving oral sex. I understand that you may think that it is dirty or like in an Asian country some women have stopped as they think it is an evil sin. I will have to find out where this article is and perhaps publish the web address in my next column. Why am I writing about giving your man a blowjob in my column you may ask, well I believe that if you please your man like he tries to please you, then to please him will please you too. When giving a blowjob, giving head or going down on your man, did you know that this form of sexual gratification too could turn you on?

Hot Blow Job…

How do you give the perfect blowjob?

Hehehehe, blowjobs, bjs hmmmmm… good topic don’t you think?

Giving a blowjob can be such a turn of for both parties so try it before you say you don’t like it.

Once again like with the guys you both need to be comfortable with it. If you feel that it is not a clean “tool” then have a shower together. Ladies take it in your hands, grab the soap, lather it up and wash it, play with it, see how it responds to your touch.

If there is room in the shower, kneel down in front of him and look closely at it, see how clean it is, before flicking your tongue over the tip. See how clean it is… Now you know that it’s clean because you helped wash it thoroughly, Close your mouth around it and feel it grow hard in your warm, moist mouth.

Take control and enjoy it as much as your partner!!

If you are being sensual and your partner tries to thrust causing you to deep throat and gag when you are not ready, grab him gently with you teeth, not tight enough to break the skin but tight enough to stop him…

Do not break the skin…

if you do all the romantic desires will have gone!!!!!

Ladies use your tongue, flicking it backwards and forwards as you suck. You can do both at the same time. Trust me on that one…

Now if you feel comfortable sucking him in the shower, get off your knees and head to somewhere a bit more comfortable, like the bed, continue what you were already doing but in a different position.

Ok first if you have lube – like KY jelly handy grab that before getting onto the bed, flavoured is great….

Have your guy lay down on the bed, kneel between his knees, squeeze a little bit of the lube, covering both hands…

Take his penis into your hands, see how slippery and sensual it is, gently massaging the shaft with both hands, occasionally teasing the head paying particular attention to the underside of the head.

Remember that you must be gentle that is why I keep referring to that particular word.

Now ladies hold on to his cock, use your tongue flicking over the head, lick the head all over and use the flat of your tongue to cover more area, gently suck on the head, sucking it into your mouth at the same time flick your tongue back and forwards around the head. Pay particular attention to the Frenulum (the underside of the penis), as it’s the most sensitive part of the glans (the head of the penis).

Tease him and please him at the same time, you can do it!

Run your hands over his inner thighs as you mouth moves on his shaft. Lower your mouth over his shaft and the trick to taking in as much as you can – to deep throat is to breath out as you are taking him in. I know this is a big ask, but concentrate on your breathing at the same time to avoid the uncontrollable urges you may get. I won’t go into detail, but I am sure you know what I am talking about.

As you suck him deep into your mouth and with your hand around the lowest part of the shaft pump him gently as your mouth rides his hot swollen penis.

As a bonus for your partner with the hand that is almost free, gently massage your partner’s testicles. Squeeze them, hold them, run your finger nails over them – there’s that word again “gently”, and at the same time sensually play with them.

Now the choice is yours. If your partner is your long-term partner and you feel you would like to taste him and swallow his cum, then read on, if not skip this paragraph and go on to the next… Your partner’s cock is throbbing with anticipation as your tongue works it’s magic, you taste his pre-cum it’s salty but nice, you wrap your hand firmly but not too tight around his cock, with your mouth sucking him deep, keep sucking as you pump him faster and faster… Keep stroking him until you feel his cock throb and suddenly he explodes sending his hot creamy cum down your throat… Look at him and lick your lips to show how much you enjoyed sucking his rod dry…

For the ladies who don’t like the taste, when you feel your partner’s cock throbbing and you feel his hips starting to thrust against you, take your mouth of his penis and with your hand wrapped firmly around his shaft pump faster and faster. Let your partner tell you how fast and how hard to stroke him as he gets nearer and nearer to dropping his load for you.

As he ejaculates let him know that you are excited too. I love watching a guy cum so as he is crying out in pleasure, if you are enjoying it too then I am sure you will know what to do… Taking control of your partner’s orgasm ultimately is a turn-on; learn how to give that special blowjob as it can ultimately be a satisfying experience for all involved.

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Posted: May 23rd, 2008 under Uncategorized.
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